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Ouch – Wisdom Teeth

Posted on May 05 by

Does just the thought of a dentist make your mouth swell like a chipmunk?

Wisdom teeth. Just the words make you want to clamp your mouth shut whilst simultaneously chewing on a baby’s teething ring. Some people get them, the lucky few don’t (say what?! You miss out on a such a wonderful experience of having four more teeth that seem to have forgotten that teething is meant to be done by age 8). If you are one of us that got them, you may or may not have to get them out….which I did.
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Dating 101

Posted on Apr 07 by



Becoming your own relationship fairy might be the key

I’ve figured it out! The ultimate dating handbook (on sale now in your closest bookstore for only $19.99!), absolutely guaranteed to get you a date who won’t be able to resist your wit and good looks, but will also see that inner beauty shining out. All you need to do is follow 1 easy step, so here it is!

There is no such thing as an ultimate way to date.

I’m not personally a huge dater. My relationships tend to be more I like him, he doesn’t like me or vice versa …. but that doesn’t stop people trying to get involved. I’m all for having a good wingman, particularly if it is someone who knows what I’m looking for in a guy and knows the guy as well, but over the years people’s advice as well as my interactions with the opposite sex (in my case) has made me realise one thing – there is no single way to date someone, or make them fall in love with you. There’s no exact amount of time you are meant to go before you respond to that text, or a particular order in which one person must call the other person first.
Despite this, there are a couple of things that I’ve learnt are really important in a relationships, no matter how you are going to go about it:
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Modern day youth and their involvement in the community.

Posted on Mar 31 by

Volunteering can take many different forms in 2015

The other day I was sitting down with my local youth group (of which I’m a member of over 5 years) and we were discussing how to recruit new members and we had to seriously think how to encourage the younger people in our town to join because their priorities aren’t the same as ours were back when we were their age, and I realized an almost shocking thing; the majority of youth nowadays seem to be more interested in the superficial things than helping people out. At least in my community, when we approached teenagers at their schools they asked questions as to what was in it with them if they helped out and said they weren’t really interested unless they gained something and this shocked me to be honest. This is not to say that all the youth out there are like this, but we were saddened to see our community like this.
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Doing something new

Posted on Mar 25 by

First times can sometimes make us squirm, but before you know it you could be loving it! Image Credit: D. Garding @Flickr

For something to be new, it is to be novel or unfamiliar (Merriam Webster Dictionary). By definition, doing something new means doing something that you aren’t used to, or something different – and that can be scary. Whether it be your first day in a new class, at the hockey club, or at a new church – you get those nervous jitters, the ‘I’ll just follow the crowd, see what happens’ vibe, keep your head down but eyes darting as you try and take it all in. Everyone else knows the rules regardless of whether they’re the ones written up on the wall or the ones that everyone else seems to know but weren’t in the handbook.
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Hosting an exhange student

Posted on Mar 19 by

Image by Robert Emmerich @ Flickr

Our German exchange student was only 15 (turning 16) when he came and stayed with us. “We will only take him for a couple of weeks while you find a more permanent home,” Mum had told the company. Well, that worked well….when the agency called back a couple of weeks later, Mum renegotiated because she didn’t want to separate with this teenage boy who became part of our family. 11 months later when he finally had to leave for Germany, Mum cried for a day solid. Our German exchange student was part of the family.

Hosting an exchange student can have its challenges. At times, it was stressful for my parents – I only just turned 13 at the time, which meant our exchange student was their first experience of handling a more stereotypical teenager. I’m sure it also placed financial strain on the family at times (if you are looking at hosting, consider the types of payments that can be made by the organisation to cover rent, food etc.). Sometimes expectations didn’t much up – Mum would expect him to do something which he wouldn’t understand, he would do something he deemed ‘normal’ which wasn’t quite as such in our family (one example being that he taught me how to silently climb out the front window of the house, a skill I never needed).
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Online Friends vs “Real Life” Friends

Posted on Mar 04 by

Photo by Mimimalniemand from Flickr

All my life I’ve been an avid video gamer, ever since my mum bought my sisters and me a Nintendo 64 at a Car-Boot Sale back in the years before touch screens, Ipads and Candy Crush Saga was a “thing”.  As my experiences went from Nintendo 64 to Playstation 2 to PSP to Playstation 3/Xbox 320 to now Playstation 4, I’ve constantly found my love for games and the art of creating it evolving. Most of my experiences have been playing single player – as my family has never really had a powerful enough internet to allow me to game online with others – with a few online Halo/Call of Duty matches here and there with, yes, random 12 year old boys cursing and screaming at me and calling my relatives a lot of bad names when I would beat them because apparently being a female and being better at shooting with a fake gun inside a video game means I’m a cheat. Anyway, these few past experiences with “online play” left a sour taste in my mouth,  I didn’t take what they said seriously because I didn’t value myself on what these random strangers thought but it still scared me off from mindless ranting from people worldwide.
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Go find the sun

Posted on Feb 16 by

Head outside to the park, walk through your street or down the beach to help keep stress manageable.

Life can be pretty crazy at the best of times. School, traffic, family – everything can cause us to be stressed. Just the right amount of stress can be ideal for performance in day to day life, however too much stress isn’t real good for you though. You feeling it right now? Finished exams and can’t figure out what to do with life/finishing  exams at the moment/school/work/life in general? Yep, that’ll set the stress train going. Especially if you live in a city….

Stick with me here, I want to tell you about something that might just help. People tend to like nature – I know it seems obvious, and I’m not just talking about greenies living in tree sits here. Have you ever considered that generally the houses with views are the ones that people want to live in, or that peoples favourite places are generally outdoors? It’s called the biophilia hypothesis, which refers to the idea that humans developed in natural, wilderness environments – not the cities we generally live in now. Because of this, cities require a lot more mental energy to figure out everything what is going on than natural environments. This can make us tired – and stressed. As the story goes, natural environments such as forests and beaches give us opportunity to restore the brain batteries that get run down by urban environments (if you want more info, check out the biophilia hypothesis or the attention restoration hypothesis).
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Posted on Feb 04 by

We live in a day where the words of Macklemore are more influential than the words of Jesus. Mention religion, and people instantly begin to quote something regarding how religion is related to terrorism. As a Christian all my life, I believe that faith through Jesus Christ is the right way. That, however, does not equate to me hitting you over the head with a placard telling you that you are an evil human being. I know with the ISIS issues going around, there are many individuals in Muslim communities who have been brought back into the spotlight, for nothing other than their religion. Yes, there are extremists in every group of people, no matter who or where you are, but it is important to remember that these people are not representations of the major population. Loving people, regardless of who they are and what they believe, can be such a challenge because it’s so easy to see someone and judge them due to the stereotypes we grew up believing.
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But Facebook told me so – why Facebook isn’t the real life.

Posted on Feb 03 by

Facebook Global Connection. Source ABC

Facebook is one of the world’s biggest networks, with approximately 1.23 billion users this year ( People from all around the world, in almost every country use it. This picture is one of my favourite descriptions of the impact Facebook has on the world, as it visually describes 10,000 virtual relationships – parts with the brighter blue have more connections, while you can see that some places have barely any, often due to legal/cultural/population issues.

This blog wasn’t meant to be a description of the site with the big blue logo – it’s about the way we use it. I know for me personally, Facebook can be the biggest time-waster, but I won’t delete it because it is a valuable source of communication between people I know interstate, overseas, and with my family when I’m not home. It has many positive aspects, and I have been involved in everything from organising weddings to uni projects to the old BBQ on Saturday in the backyard through Facebook pages. Mine currently inspires me to see places around the world and investigate when the next Aurora Australis is on in Tasmania.
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Help! My parents are staying together!

Posted on Jan 28 by

I’ve never been a child of divorce. My parents married young, and have happily had 25 years of marriage together. ‘So what?’ you say. My point is, sometimes I’m starting to feel like I’m part of a minority – I get to see both my parents together at Christmas, and don’t have to worry about them running into each other at my graduation. Divorce rates are something like 40-50% in Australia, which means that almost every second marriage isn’t for life.
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When a suicidal friend talks to you about what they’re feeling.

Posted on Jan 20 by

In the past I’ve had many different friends, with many different feelings, talk with me about a various amount of things, but a few weeks ago for the first time one of my friends came out as having severe depression and that he’s thought about suicide before. It’s a confronting thing, and hard for both the person sharing their feelings and the one being told. When my friend – who I’ll call Matthew in this blog as to not reveal his real name – told me that he’s almost always depressed and has tried committing suicide before, I was shocked beyond all belief. Matthew is the type of guy to always make jokes, smile constantly, and has a overall sunny disposition whenever I’m around him, so to be told he hates himself and his life was shocking.

Matthew and I met a little over a year ago and we’ve been close friends ever since. I can’t explain the pain I felt when he told me how much pain he’s been in internally for years now. He comes from a house with an alcoholic father and a mother who prefers to impress her housewife friends over caring for her son. When Matthew told me how he’s been feeling he said it was part because he was afraid he’d become his father, part because his mother only ever talked to him when she wanted him to drive down town and pick her up some alcohol or food, and part because of bullying he’s suffering at his high school. He said that lots of little things keep adding up and up and up, and they chip away at his confidence and has left him questioning the worth of his life.
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